作者：
1、 Many people prefer living in pain than to have their problems solved
2、 Your fear prevents you from facing it,And yet not facing it is the cause of your fear.
3、 What you say or do,is it for yourself on for the othens? ls it for satisfying your self-image,or really for the othes to become better?
4、 When you keep your eyes and mind on the problem,you will not see the many opportunities around you (by Bert Hei ling ndash; the Family Constellation )
5、 Irresponsible,demanding unreasonable,taking withot giving,wanting to contml others,and making others to do things for us through complaining.We have to let this one go,because it prevents us from growing and takes away the success and happiness we deserve.